{"id":17505,"date":"2021-11-19T20:11:59","date_gmt":"2021-11-19T19:11:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kvinfo.dk\/old\/?p=17505"},"modified":"2021-11-19T20:14:03","modified_gmt":"2021-11-19T19:14:03","slug":"hvad-skal-feminister-med-en-mandedag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www2.kvinfo.dk\/old\/hvad-skal-feminister-med-en-mandedag\/","title":{"rendered":"Hvad skal feminister med en mandedag?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kvindernes internationale kampdag er en uomg\u00e6ngelig m\u00e6rkedag for enhver feminist. Med god grund. Samtidig bekender mange feminister sig til den definition, at en feminist er en person, der mener, at alle skal have lige muligheder og lige rettigheder uanset k\u00f8n. G\u00f8r man det, m\u00e5 man ogs\u00e5 kunne se behovet for den internationale mandedag.<\/p>\n

Men er mandedagen ikke bare whataboutery<\/em>, der flytter fokus fra de egentlige ligestillingsproblemer?<\/p>\n

Selvom kvinder stadig oplever langt mere diskrimination og flere barrierer p\u00e5 baggrund af k\u00f8n, s\u00e5 er der ogs\u00e5 alvorlige ligestillingsproblemer for m\u00e6nd.<\/p>\n

Enten m\u00e6nd eller kvinder? Tv\u00e6rtimod<\/h3>\n

Drenge f\u00e5r d\u00e5rligere karakterer end piger, og f\u00e6rre f\u00e6rdigg\u00f8r en ungdomsuddannelse. Tre af fire hjeml\u00f8se er m\u00e6nd. Og 19 ud af 20 indsatte i f\u00e6ngslerne er m\u00e6nd. Vi skal helt ind i 2022, f\u00f8r f\u00e6dre bliver ligestillet med m\u00f8dre i forhold til barselsrettigheder og udbetaling af b\u00f8rnepenge. M\u00e6nd, der er udsat for vold af deres partner, m\u00e5 stadig vente p\u00e5 at f\u00e5 de samme rettigheder som kvinder.<\/p>\n

Disse problemer skal ikke fjerne fokus fra kvinders ligestillingsproblemer. Men det er ikke enten eller.<\/p>\n

Faktisk tv\u00e6rtimod.<\/p>\n

Stereotyper giver ligestillingsproblemer<\/h3>\n

M\u00e6nds ligestillingsproblemer er langt hen ad vejen gjort af det samme stof som kvinders. Begge er konsekvenser af stereotype forventninger til k\u00f8nnene. Forventninger til, hvad vi kan lide, hvad vi er gode til, og hvilke roller vi indtager p\u00e5 arbejdsmarkedet, i familien, i parforholdet \u2013 ja selv i sengen.<\/p>\n

En kvinde kan v\u00e6re \u201dbillig\u201d, og en mand kan v\u00e6re en \u201dvatpik\u201d.<\/p>\n

Kvinder skal v\u00e6re \u00e6rbare, og m\u00e6nd skal v\u00e6re liderlige. Ellers er de forkerte.<\/p>\n

Men man kan v\u00e6re mand p\u00e5 mange m\u00e5der.<\/p>\n

Pak de sn\u00e6vre kasser v\u00e6k<\/h3>\n

Skal vi derfor ikke blive enige om at f\u00e5 pakket de sn\u00e6vre kasser v\u00e6k, s\u00e5 vi alle f\u00e5r lidt mere plads til at v\u00e6re dem, vi gerne vil v\u00e6re? Det burde v\u00e6re en f\u00e6lles sag.<\/p>\n

S\u00e5 lad os bruge 19. november til at minde os om to ting.<\/p>\n

For det f\u00f8rste, at det ogs\u00e5 er en feministisk sag at g\u00f8re noget ved de problemer, som m\u00e6nd m\u00f8der, n\u00e5r de st\u00f8der sammen med sn\u00e6rende k\u00f8nsrollem\u00f8nstre.<\/p>\n

For det andet, at m\u00e6nds engagement i ligestilling ikke kommer af sig selv.<\/p>\n

Aktive medspillere for ligestilling for alle<\/h3>\n

Men burde m\u00e6nd ikke selv tage ansvar for at f\u00e5 gjort op med voldt\u00e6gt, sexisme, diskrimination og alle de andre former for undertrykkelse, som kvinder har ligget under for i generation efter generation? Burde m\u00e6nd ikke kunne se, at de skylder en k\u00e6mpe omgang?<\/p>\n

M\u00e5ske.<\/p>\n

Der har v\u00e6ret anledninger nok. Der har v\u00e6ret to runder af #MeToo og en lang debat om samtykke og mange flere vigtige wake-up-calls<\/em> om manglende ligestilling. Og alligevel har langt de fleste m\u00e6nd i Danmark ikke p\u00e5taget sig en aktiv rolle i ligestillingsarbejdet.<\/p>\n

Uanset hvordan vi vender og drejer det, kan vi ikke tvinge m\u00e6nd til at engagere sig i ligestilling. Ikke desto mindre er m\u00e6nds modstand og manglende engagement en k\u00e6mpe barriere for, at kvinder opn\u00e5r ligestilling.<\/p>\n

Lad os derfor bruge den 19. november til at f\u00e5 flere m\u00e6nd ombord. Ikke som vrede modstandere eller passive allierede. Men som aktive medspillere i ligestilling for b\u00e5de m\u00e6nd og kvinder. Og det g\u00f8r vi bedst ved at vise, at ligestillingssagen er vigtig, sp\u00e6ndende og relevant for os alle sammen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kvindernes internationale kampdag er en uomg\u00e6ngelig m\u00e6rkedag for enhver feminist. Med god grund. Samtidig bekender mange feminister sig til den definition, at en feminist er en person, der mener, at alle skal have lige muligheder og lige rettigheder uanset k\u00f8n. G\u00f8r man det, m\u00e5 man ogs\u00e5 kunne se behovet for den internationale mandedag. 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